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Zen for Men (Or anyone really!) by Donna Eddy
There are MANY breath work and ice bath practices/providers out there that seem to be drawing the men in – which is great! For those not into the ‘group’ thing or losing their testicles for a few minutes in an ice bath, then, this article may be for YOU!
The inspiration to connect with the Males of our world for NMW24 was to honour and reflect on the loss of my 49 year old Brother-in-law to suicide on the 22nd of December 2023*.
My brother-in-law had an enduring battle with the ‘Black Dog’ and in spite of many suggestions, options and some hesitant attempts at therapy, ultimately, this he could not over come or work through any longer. This year my support for Natural Medicine Week is for him and those who know someone who finds it difficult to live their fullest life, express their emotions (and themselves) fully, quieten the mind and see brightness in the future ahead, to name a small few of the many issues.
*Links and contact details are at the top of the reference list, at the end of this article. For those whom may need to reach out, are looking for support or do not know where to turn. Sometimes the ear of someone you don’t know, can be very helpful.
I Happily add my contact details to that list too! xo Donna
Let me introduce you to a wonderfully simple practice that can be utilised in two ways (as well as be a doorway to both alternative and deeper practices if so inspired).
This article covers the Qi Gong practice: The 6 Healing Sounds. (1)
The included image is provided by Mantuk Chia of the Healing Dao in Thailand.
Before we dive into The 6 Healing Sounds, let us journey through the history of QiGong (in my humble opinion the originator of breath work and thus the cheeky start to this article). This is combined with a little Western Science around Breathing, Sound/Vibration and Mental Health.
“In the striving for balance Yin & Yang energies are on constant motion… the same duality exists in our Mind, Body and Spirits.”. (2)
Qi Gong or Chi Kung (depends on the author) is part of what I call the “Medicinal Life Practice” of Traditional Chinese Medicine. ‘Medicinal Life Practice’ (my term) is moving through your day to day with awareness, tuning into and living according to the seasons, as well as, cultivating the best eating, sleeping habits and managing emotional and mental chatter to live a harmonious life on all fronts.
Developed over centuries QiGong could be labeled the umbrella term which encompasses various traditional practices, including but not limited to…
“Daoyin (guiding and pulling), Nedian (internal alchemy), Neigong (internal skill), Xinqi (circulating qi), Zhan Zhuang (stained meditation), Tuna (exhalation and inhalation) and Lianyang (refining and nourishing). Many of these practices were passed on in secret, handed down only to initiates or within families. P395 . (3)
Defining the term Qi Gong:
the ‘gong’ (work or skill) of ‘qi’ (vital energy) p400 .(3)
If you’d like my western pronunciation of these terms and words, do book into the NMW24 class or sign up for the recording! (Links below) For the LIVE session we will be running through each of the 6 Healing Sounds. This is to ensure you benefit from the vibrational aspects of this practice by repeating the sound correctly…. And for you to get comfortable with making not only audible but ‘funny’ sounds with your breath!
The 6 healing Sounds is both breath work and sound therapy. Sound therapy is vibration therapy. The session (or recording) will start looking at sound and western science to build a picture before jumping into the 6 Healing Sounds practice. Up first in the look at Sound and Western Science… the importance of proper or functional breathing. As well as, breathing with intention.
An article reprinted in the ATMS Journal Vol28 n02 titled: “Dysfunctional Breathing by Rosabela Courtney”(5) provides some anatomical and psychological perspectives to breathing and subsequently adds weight to the benefits of breathwork and breathing practices.
“Up to 10% of the general population experience dysfunction breathing, which can disrupt the maintenance of homeostasis within the body.” (5)
An aspect we will cover briefly here is…
“Dysfunctional breathing is sometimes categorised as thoracic or extra thoracic breathing”(5) . This is where one is not allowing the breath to fill the lungs or ‘work’ the diaphragm to its full capacity and the breath remains up in the chest area.
Why mention this? The article further shares that:
“…the resolution of breathing dysfunction can be pivotal to the successful treatment of chronic back and neck pain, and to the rehabilitation of faulty patterns of movement and posture.”(5)
Secondly, the value (and clarity provided from) emerging science in relation to sonic or vibration (sound therapy) and the nervous system… linking sound and vibration to the vagus nerve. Whilst diving into all angles for this article, I enjoyed the cross over and interconnectedness of these different views. I ended up down a rabbit hole of Vagal Nerve Theory.
Vagal Nerve Theory is an increasingly popular topic in the healing and psychotherapy realms, which will be mentioned in the Live session (so be sure to tune -in!) and hopefully we’ll go into much more detail with a future JATMS article for our practitioners out there.
Circling back to Qi Gong and mental/emotional health….
“The vitality of all people inevitably comes from their peace offend. When anxious, you lose this guiding thread. When angry, you lose this basic point.”
Original Tao, 4th century BCE (3)
And the following from Deadman (2)
“Although the idea that emotional excess is harmful to health goes back to the very beginning of the Self Cultivation tradition, it was around 800 years ago that Chinese Medicine texts first began to codify ‘the seven harmful emotions’.
These are:
Anger (including frustration and resentment) which is said to affect the Liver and GallBladder, Joy (excitement) is said to affect the Heart, whilst Over-thinking,
Worry and Anxiety damage the Spleen and Stomach, Grief and Sadness are said to affect the Lungs, and lastly Fear and Shock affect the Kidneys.”(2)
The above mentioned organs can be better understood through our common language and phrases, such as “blind with fury” and “worried sick”. What I’ve always loved whilst learning Traditional Chinese Medicine and related Longevity (‘Medicinal Life’) practices, is its immersion into the global vernacular.
It is both the cross over and the thread of commonality that encourages me to look at all options and angles when it comes to living the best life possible and sharing the best practices available. A big part of that, is, being able to let go of what does not work and welcome the new… after some research and testing first of course.
With a powerful notion captured in the following sentence:
“Emotions are a normal response to life, but, they can become harmful when they are prolonged, indulged, or repressed”. (2) Let’s look at and explain The 6 Healing Sounds.
The full page PDF of The 6 Healing Sounds follows this blog. It is (imho) best learnt in person. One could also look up Mantuk Chia and watch videos of the man himself for authenticity.
Below is a break down of each sound and organ and the language I use for teaching them. There is quite a lot of information for each organ. I suggest to those I share this with, to start with the sound and the organ. Focus on that, then add in the energy you are breathing out to clear it, then focus on the energy you are drawing in to cultivate said organ, then add the colour and the emotional content you are dealing with/clearing at the time.
The 6 Healing Sounds is a practical tool that can be used as either an ‘end of day’ clearing of the organs and the entire body… almost a meditative practice. Alternatively, it is something you can use as needed throughout the day and simply clear the one organ that’s needing clearing. E.g: Clear the Liver when stuck in traffic!
Below each sound is described:
- Lungs – think ‘snake’ and make the ‘ssssssssss’ sound whilst inwardly focusing your attention on the Lungs.
- Kidneys – think train and make the sound ‘choooooooo’ whilst inwardly focusing on the Kidneys and opening the lower back.
- Liver – think letting off steam or quietening someone ‘shhhhhhhhhhhh’ whilst inwardly focusing on the Liver under the ribs on the right.
- Heart – think ‘hawk’ and take off the K. ‘Hawwwwwww’ with mouth open whilst inwardly focusing your attention on the Heart.
- Spleen – think of an Owl ‘whoooooooo’ and press fingers in under ribs on the left side whilst inwardly focusing on the Spleen (which sits behind the stomach).
- Triple Warmer (3 energy centres) – think about the air escaping out gently as you make the sound ‘Heeeeeee’ whilst inwardly focusing on the space within the torso/rib area. Feel the ribs sink as you lay there and relax.
Back to the previously seen quote:
“Emotions are a normal response to life, but, they can become harmful when they are prolonged, indulged, or repressed”. (2)
It is through either expressing these emotions as they arise (as long as it is respectful to yourself and others and not an over expression), or cleansing them at the end of the day with the above Qi Gong practice, that we ensure we are indeed not, prolonging, indulging, or repressing anything. A life fully expressed and free flowing, is a life of flow, ease and grace.
Starting a nightly practice of clearing the organs, can go a long way to metabolise not only the day that was, but also, clear your longer term experiences. Perhaps it is the first step which then draws you to other longevity promoting ‘Medicinal Life Practices’.
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REFERENCES:
- Chia, M (2009) Six Healing Sounds – Transform Negative Emotions to Positive Emotions. Destiny Books USA.
- Lindford, M (2000) Monica Lindford – Awaken your Body, Balance your Mind. Chiball Method. Thorns. London. UK
- Deadman, P (2016) Live Well – Live Long. The Journal of Chinese Medicine. Hove UK
- Deadman, P (2014) Journal of Chinese Medicine • Number 105 • June 2014
- Courtney, R (2022) JATMS Journal of Australian Traditional Medicine Society, Vol28 number 2. “Dysfunctional Breathing” pp76-80 ISSN1326-3390
