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Scar tissue and the silent struggles: You don’t have to just live with it

By Amy Tyler
If you’ve had surgery or radiation as part of your cancer treatment, chances are you were told what to expect in terms of recovery times, healing timelines, maybe even how your scar might look. But what often gets left out of the conversation is how that scar might feel—physically and emotionally—long after the treatment is over.
For many people, scar tissue isn’t just a mark on the skin. It can feel tight, numb, tender, hypersensitive, or just plain not right. It might pull when you move, limit your range of motion, or make daily tasks more difficult. Sometimes it tingles or causes strange nerve sensations—pins and needles, crawling feelings, burning or itching that just won’t go away.
Some people describe their scar as not feeling like a part of their body at all. Others feel a wave of emotion every time they look at it—a reminder of fear, pain, or vulnerability. And then there’s radiated tissue. It can become thickened, rigid, and less mobile than surrounding areas, creating even more restriction and discomfort.
These side effects are real. And they are common. But they’re also often unspoken—because so many people feel like they should just be grateful to be alive.
And of course, you are. You’ve been through something incredibly hard, and you’ve come through it. But gratitude and discomfort can exist in the same body. You can be thankful and still deserve to feel better in your own skin.
Why Scar Tissue Acts the Way It Does
Scar tissue is your body’s natural way of repairing itself after injury or surgery. But unlike regular soft tissue, scar tissue isn’t as elastic or mobile. It tends to stick to the layers beneath it, making movement feel stiff or restricted. This can affect how your shoulder lifts, how your chest expands when you breathe, or how easily you reach for something in a cupboard.
Radiated tissue adds another layer. Radiation can change the quality of the tissue itself—it can become thicker, drier, and less able to stretch or move with you. This stiffness can show up months or even years after treatment.
Nerve endings in the area can also become affected, leading to sensations like numbness, tingling, or hypersensitivity. These changes aren’t always visible—but they are very real to live with.
Massage Can Help—Gently
One thing that often surprises people is that massage can be a powerful tool in improving scar mobility and reducing discomfort—when done safely and gently.
We’re not talking about deep tissue or aggressive techniques here. Oncology-trained massage therapists use gentle, non-inflammatory scar work that encourages the tissue to soften, glide, and move more freely. Over time, this can help the scar feel more like regular soft tissue, increasing comfort and range of motion.
This kind of touch also helps re-integrate the area into your sense of self. Many people say that after regular scar massage, their scar doesn’t feel like a foreign object anymore—it feels more like them. That emotional shift is just as important as the physical one.
You Deserve Relief
So often, people think they just have to put up with the ongoing effects of cancer treatment. They’re told the treatment is over, and they assume this tightness, numbness, or discomfort is just the “new normal.” But it doesn’t have to be.
You don’t have to suffer in silence.
You don’t have to ignore your discomfort just because “it’s not as bad as chemo.”
And you certainly don’t need to wait until something feels unbearable to seek support.
Your body deserves care, even now—especially now. Gentle scar and radiated tissue massage can make a meaningful difference, not just in how you move, but in how you feel in your body.
Finding the Right Support
Look for a massage therapist who is trained in oncology massage. They understand the unique needs of people affected by cancer, including how to work with scar tissue safely, and how to respect the emotional layers that may come with it. They’ll listen to your experience, adjust the session to suit you, and help you take small, steady steps toward feeling more like yourself again.
Because healing doesn’t stop when treatment ends.
And you don’t have to carry the invisible weight of scar tissue—physically or emotionally—on your own.
Ready to Feel More Like Yourself Again?
If you’ve been living with scar-related discomfort, tightness, or strange sensations, it’s not “just you” and it’s not “just how it has to be.” Gentle, oncology-trained massage therapy can help ease those side effects and reconnect you to your body.
You deserve care, comfort, and support—at every stage of your healing.
Find a Qualified Oncology Massage Therapist Near You → https://instituteofoncologymassage.com.au/find-a-therapist/

More about the author

Amy Tyler
Amy Tyler
– Institute of Oncology Massage

Amy Tyler is an award winning remedial massage therapist who specialises in working with people who have had a cancer diagnosis. She creates connection for the mind and body through integrating Oncology, Scar and Lymphoedema Massage to bring completely new levels of freedom and confidence to a patients life. With 20+ years experience and training, she has become known in the industry for her unique skill set and has trained many other therapists to specialise in oncology massage. She runs her private clinic in Waitara in the north of Sydney and at the Sydney Adventist Hospital Cancer Support Centre, and was awarded the ATMS Natural Medicine Awards “Practitioner of the Year 2020”. Amy is the founder and CEO of Institute of Oncology Massage, a Society for Oncology Massage endorsed training organisation that empowers Remedial Massage Therapists and Myotherapists to confidently and competently adapt their skills when working with anyone who has had a cancer diagnosis.